Into the “Woods”

Last week I asked Clark if there was a particular fairy tale he liked as a kid. He said “The Dark Crystal” was his favorite. I fell asleep during the movie so I had little hope for the book. Since I’m generally not one for fairy tales, I was more or less counting on him to choose one for our Cheap Date Night Challenge.

Cheap Date Night Challenge #2

“With a flashlight, blanket, and favorite fairy tale book in tow, find the most magical of forests or wooded areas in which to stage your nighttime story hour. And if you think fairy tales are for sissies, bring some Sherlock Holmes stories or, better yet, H.G. Wells instead. Don’t forget the thermos of hot chocolate and the box of animal crackers.”

Clark suggested we read The Secret of Nimh, which I found on Tuesday for a dollar at a used bookstore that smelled like kitty litter. I had my doubts once I learned that this story had something to do with rats and mice. I don’t care much for either. The mouse I found in my kitchen last month left me standing on top of my bed for the better part of the afternoon waiting for Clark to get home and rescue me. He didn’t think that was too cute. My friend Ashley came over an hour or so before our date on Saturday to bring me some fairy tale books that have a bit more adult humor. Just for clarification, this implies a story line that adults find humorous. This was NOT a clothing optional date night challenge. While Clark and I were checking out at the market with our frosted animal crackers (because the plain ones are disgusting) and a bottle of Barefoot pinot we ran into Martha who innocently asked us which fairy tale we chose for our date to which I responded, “Ashley gave us some adult fairy tales.” Clark, Martha, and the check out girl at Harris Teeter looked at me as if I had just gone streaking down the produce aisle. I turned 8 shades of red, promptly paid for my frosted animal crackers and left the store. So I feel the need to be as clear as possible on that point.

Duke offered to sit for Salem and Mia while we were out on our date. Duke (David Docusen) is my friend of 20 years who also happens to be my pastor. The thing about friends of 20 years who are also your pastor is that no matter how compelling the Sunday sermon may be, you can casually say things like, “Hey, remember when your nickname was Dookie?” A friendship like ours serves to pride-proof your life. I am totally comfortable leaving my kids with their “Uncle Duke”, however, I am not, nor will I ever be comfortable leaving him with 5oz of my breast milk. I know pastors are supposed to display a servant’s heart, and Duke does so more than any pastor I’ve ever known, but that is going above and beyond for any man. How does one respectfully say, “There are diapers in the top drawer and you can feed Mia at 8:30. There is a bottle of my breast milk on the counter. Oh and good luck with Leviticus.” I’m not sure if it was more awkward for him or for me, but needless to say, Pastor Dookie was a real trooper.

So Clark and I left our children and my breast milk with Duke and set out for our little dating adventure. We are city folk, so the only “magical forest” we could find was our community park. We toted our bag of tales with our flashlight and our basket of goodies to a patch of grass where we toasted to making it through the wilderness season. Over the course of the past year, we have had a baby, moved to a new city and started a business. Talk about topping the stress charts! The only thing that has come easy is taking each other for granted amidst so many other demands. As silly as it is to spend the night eating animal crackers and reading children’s books to each other, we learned that sometimes in order to simply enjoy one another again, we have to take the unconventional approach. Surprisingly, The Secret of Nimh was a hit! We were totally hooked until the cops came and asked us what we were doing in the park after dark. It was a most thrilling end to our magical experience.

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7 Comments

  1. Megan Tovi (Hoke) said,

    October 12, 2010 at 1:22 am

    Salina,

    I haven’t seen you in so long but I came across your blog on facebook. It’s so inspiring to read. I love your thoughts and appreciate hearing wisdom from someone who loves the Lord. I recently got married and so my name has changed. I am not a Tovi instead of a Hoke. I hope you are doing well. God bless you.

    Sincerely,

    Megan

    • ladylullabuy said,

      October 12, 2010 at 1:30 am

      Hi Megan! CONGRATULATIONS! I am thrilled to hear you got married. I hope that you are enjoying these early days of marriage. Thanks for your encouragement!! Blessings to you and your husband!

  2. Tabatha said,

    October 12, 2010 at 1:15 pm

    The Dark Crystal is one of my favorites too 🙂
    I have to agree with your comments about taking each other for granted. In the hustle of the day to day, it’s easy to forget the fact that you are one with that special person who sleeps next to you. And all it really takes is a little time and effort to keep that connection.
    I’m really enjoying these cheap date challenges. This one is going in my stash 🙂

  3. Jordan Watts said,

    October 13, 2010 at 11:13 am

    You’re such a great writer – keep at it!

  4. October 23, 2010 at 1:57 am

    HaHa. That is good stuff. The next time you want to venture into the woods, put your kids to bed at my house and hike out into our woods on the farm. You might meet a possum, but no cops!

    • ladylullabuy said,

      October 23, 2010 at 11:25 pm

      I will Cindy! I can’t stop thinking about your farm. Your life there us so beautiful. Thanks for inviting us into it. Love to you.


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